DEALING WITH DIFFICULT PEOPLE.

Difficult people are people who lacks concerns for others, they are full of dramas and negatively impact the emotional well-being of others, some are unaware of the negative influence while some derives pleasures riding on others and sometimes it can be tempting to reciprocate in response to their negativity.

Your ability to deal with such people is going to have more influence on your success and happiness. It is easy to deal with positive and cheerful people but you have go or do extra to demonstrate the quality of your personality especially, when you have to deal with difficult people and your ability to function well in  a competitive society.

HOW TO DEAL WITH DIFFICULT PEOPLE.

1. BE PATIENT: try not to lose your cool, stay calm and do not let the negativity of others nestle in and snatch away your peace of mind.

2.SMILE: don't go with a tight face rather wear a warm coat of smile at all times, be cheerful to keep going, smile to keep yourself healthy.

3.RECOGNISE AND IGNORE INSULTS: difficult people tend to disquise  insults with compliments, try to disregard or pay no attention to the insults.

4.SILENT:you don't have to give or respond to everything said or done to you, avoid going into an argument with such people when you don't have something good to say.

5. TAKE CONTROL :you can not always have control over these people but you can be able to control yours emotions and reactions towards them because someone else's behavior is not worth your heartache.

6.ASK QUESTIONS: You can take control of any negative situation by not trying to attack or win, simply ask questions to understand and communicate each other's feelings because the person might have good intentions.